April 28, 2010
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Male Dominance
So a few people responded to my last post that they would rather have their men be dominant versus submissive. Does anyone want to give an example of either Male Dominance or Female Submission. (They are different although often come together in someone’s fantasy.)
Comments (20)
I think about a woman on her knees in front of the man (me, of course)…
This is a very slickery slope. I have avoided writing to it much here on Xanga. The folks here seem to be pretty Vanilla, so I just leave these bolgs quietly in some un-noticed spots. Good luck on not getting crucified.
Not that I am into it but…pegging
@JadeMaster2 - There is a certain sub-sect of xanga that largely involves secret-xangas where there is a BDSM community. I once participated under another name. =] There are people who are perfectly happy with this topic area.
@RushmoreJ - Female Submission:
Giving the gift of your complete submission to another. Devoting yourself to trusting them completely. Giving over your body, to be tied, or to do things, trusting that your Dom(me) will only do what is right for your relationship. It can be from what to wear, to being tied up and blindfolded. Many only associate it with sex. Many mis-categorize it as humiliation or using the person. D/s means something different in each relationship, and it isn’t just whats in the movies or papers x_x.
Tho if you’re looking for an image for writing material my favorite example would be being tied up and whipped… since I have a problem with silence at times, It has been suggested I might be taught that way =p.
@JadeMaster2 - I’ve taken a few whacks on here before. I try not to be bothered by those comments and avoid debating.
@avariellefaye - Thanks for the well articulated comment.
@godfatherofgreenbay - do I sense some irony in your choice of words
@avariellefaye - Can I get direction to this mythic Shang-Ri-La?
Well…I didn’t notice that when I wrote it butt that is funny
I’m not into submission by either . . . aggressiveness is good though . . . no mamby-pamby games . . . I want it, I need it, get naked!!!!
I always enjoy control games, of either type.
Although, if it gets out of hand, some women carry away inaccurate perceptions about ones masculinity afterwards… of either type.
LOL
Hmm…I think I’m a switch actually. I do default toward wanting to be dominated but the current guy I’m with…?
Well, I just love to take control over him. *giggles*
@RushmoreJ - That’s a perfect example.
@JustTheseWords - I’m a switch myself and love to play both ways. To really make it work, though, I think it helps to define the time. So: “tonight I will do anything you want. I will follow your instructions exactly as you wish… And tomorrow you will do the same for me.”
@JadeMaster2 - See Rush is very fair and mature in his discussions of sexual encounters on the edge. I haven’t seen many people bothered by him nor would I expect it.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Fair: perhaps. Mature: I doubt it!
@RushmoreJ - Give me an example when your discussion (on Xanga) of something sexual was “immature”
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Where to begin – how about Dear Sex Dude?
@RushmoreJ - give us a linkity
I’m not proud but http://rushmorej.xanga.com/642721182/dear-sex-dude/
my legs placed on stirrups while I’m blindfolded, then he examines me with his tongue
while he rubs my clit with his hands. it is like a gynecologist exam except kinkier.