July 20, 2013
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Farewell and Thanks
This is sort of a farewell to Xanga. Certainly Xanga as we know it but also Xanga as it was. It was encouragement and positive feedback from many Xangans that led me to begin to publish my stories for a price. I’m not making a living out of my stories but it’s nice to be able to get paid something for doing work you love.
My only regret is that I haven’t blogged much about my personal life or views and I think this has led to a strange circumstance. I have read many of your blogs and fell that I have become close to many of the other Xangans here but I haven’t always felt the same relationship in return. There’s a chance that this comes from my insecurity but it is probably more likely a result of my maintaining my erotica persona.
I want to take a moment to say thanks to a bunch of people many of which are no longer on Xanga. I miss many of these people and I’m glad to see other Xanga connections developing on Facebook and in posts like this.
In no particular order and forgive me for skipping many people. Airwynn (Tiffany) was so helpful when I first started. She helped me navigate the idiosyncrasies of Xanga at the time (2007) and was very accepting. ItsWhatEyeKnow, Elle, Jaime Beck, Sean-HiLaw, DivaJyoti all wrote posts I found facinating. I fell in love with Marica, Days Likethis, la_femme_inconnue, Paige (although we could never discuss politics), ShimmerBodyCream, OLWD, and Lady Kelacy.
There were people who came and left but made an impression: dyonesianeyes, nprwrites, DistantShipSmoke, Giant Unicorn, Janeatthelibrary, jacksoncroons, msmae21, ccarothers, sassy_soul_sistah, venice, Just_me, KyohakuMegami, spshellady, and the beautiful Serena Dante. My favorite Muslims: Saadia, Dr Zsa and the irrepressible fabulousclown. The people I wished I got to know better: Jenny, Amy, BoulderChristina, thegunslingergirl, suggestivetongue, nyfemme, veronicagrey, saintvi, Sean, and promisesunshine. The people who entertained me in a special way: anthonyc, carolinamuscle, godfatherofgreenbay, amateurprose, CEC32, and yes, Dan the theologian. People I wish I knew in real life: Adamswomanback, kells, Erika Steele, Carlos (soltero_alma), and others mentioned elsewhere.
I enjoyed watching Summer and Jim fall in love in spite of the drama that seemed to surround them. I have become cybernetically involved with the lives of wyckdstorm, myhomeiswriting, bricker59, Takingoverme, JmeLove_x, and Foodhog. Lastly thanks to those struggling hard to keep the community alive: the Xanga team, roadlesstaken, edlives, and myxldove.
Again I apologize to those I left out. There are others here who have made a difference for me and whose support is appreciated.
Comments (19)
It’s been a joy knowing you – and I look forward to seeing what you may have in store in the future, wherever you may be online and in person.
It will be so strange, this place no longer being here, the people we’ve met no longer being where they’ve been. All this stuff with the baby has had me so preoccupied I Haven’t written my own farewell, yet. It was been good knowing you and definitely an exciting adventure, traipsing through your stories . Hopefully, we’ll be able to keep up with eachother in other ways. *HUGS*
@Lady_Kelacy - Lot of people have moved to word press and so will Xanga 2.0 If you are “True” most likely you have enough credits to buy a month premium which will have your blog transferred to word press. Ask Edlives or me for more details. Both of us are working hard to encourage folks to move to wordpress or xanga 2.0 good luck on your decisions.
I’m glad to have known you and am grateful for all your support over the last few years.
Xanga has been awesome and I have to echo your sentiments. I have enjoyed most of these same bloggers…
I am definitely going to miss this place and all of the people I’ve meet on it. I have also enjoyed knowing many of the same people here.
I’ll miss my Xangans, too, though many of us have connected on WordPress. It’s not the same kind of place, though. Here, I feel as though I’m talking to people. On WordPress, I feel like I’m talking to myself in a room, hoping someone will hear me.I wish you continued good luck with your writing and whateve else lies ahead.Dian
Hey Bud, thanks for the mention. And you just never know, perhaps our paths may cross one day.As far as @Days_like this, I miss her lots. She was a good friend, better to me than I was to her. If you ever hear from her, please tell her I said that, and give her my regards.
@edlives - thanks. Ditto. @Lady_Kelacy - Try wordpress. It looks like even if Xanga 2.0 works, you will need to figure it out. It’s not hard to pick up. @MyHomeIsWriting - thanks Liz. Let’s keep in touch. @Aloysius_son - There have been so many good friends here, it’s hard to write a post like this for fear of leaving so many off. @Erika_Steele - I’m looking forward to getting to know you better. @whyzat - I know exactly what you mean Dian but now is the time to give it a try when Xangans are looking to connect. @PPhilip - It will be interesting to see how Xanga 2.0 uses WordPress@soltero_alma - I hope we can keep in touch and I’ll let you know if I talk to Marilyn.
And thanks to you as well. I didn’t get to pursue nprwrites as much as I wanted to, but I always appreciated your encouragement there. Best to you
Keep writing
You’re really very good at it.
You’ve brought a smile to my face many times. Best wishes always! ♥♥♥
It was great to have “met” you here. While your stories here were definitely great for reading, it was also good to know you when you gave me advice on job-hunting, projects, etc. So, thank you! I’m glad that we’re also friends on FB, and I follow you on Blogspot.See you around the internet!~ Marica
Aw, thanks so much, Rush! I feel honored to get a mention! I’ve enjoyed your friendship and your great writing! You’ve always been so kind to me! I follow Jim and Summer on another site…they are happy and have a beautiful son! I’ve so enjoyed all the people I’ve met here…especially the “kids” that are my own kid’s age. I have a site on WP and will blog there more soon.HUGS!!!
@npr32486 - you should write more, you have talent. @emily_shannon - thanks yo Emily. I appreciate your comments more than you know. @armnatmom - Likewise @Marica0701 - we’ll definitely stay in touch somehow. @adamswomanback - sorry about your recent spat of bad luck. You have a great attitude towards life and we can all learn from you.
It has been awesome getting to know you on here. I am sorry to see you go but I realize that is sort of happening now with just about everyone.
@TheTheologiansCafe - I’ll stick around if they survive but asking bloggers to pay seems like a losing strategy. (I have ponied up my $48 by the way.)
I appreciate the mention. And I appreciate you.I can’t believe it has come to this… I also ponied up my $48, but it seems the ship is still going down.I’ll be in touch. Keep writing friend.
thanks for the mention. i’m bummed too. xanga is pretty special. and you certainly brought some major fun to this place.